Name That Lingerie! Ask guests to bring lingerie as a gift, and have the bride guess who gave her what as she unwraps them. Or, each pitch in $20 to get her a super nice underwear set she probably wouldn't splurge on herself, like from Kiki de Montparnasse or Agent Provocateur.
"I read the email on my phone and I cried all the way through dinner as I tried to explain to them what was going on. I was shocked, confused, and didn’t have any idea of what to do."