Pay attention, please...
Mrs. Grant's Kinder-Gators: Search results for birthday graph
The Inspired Classroom: Kindness Lesson
Safe spot (instead of a time out). I like this idea of a safe spot to calm down and think. This blogger has a lot of interesting thoughts on behavior as well.
Classroom Rules for Pre-K and Kindergarten | Pre-K Pages
Books That Heal Kids: Book Review: The Way I Act
I made this from a couple other examples... teaching students to take responsibility for actions.