When things aren't adding up in your life, start subtracting. This makes perfect sense, doesn't it? Sometimes we get carried away with, as an editor once said to me, "Too much of a muchness." Cut back. Simplify. Savor the things you truly love about your life.
Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny. -Lao-Tze