Narcissists MO - idealize, devalue, discard... It doesn't do any good to ask why, you will never really know why. Just know that they are disordered and that they will repeat this pattern with every person they enter into a relationship with, despite what they want you to believe. They will never change.
I owe your brother a huge debt of gratitude. Without him and his intercessions I would've surely ended up right where I was before. A huge mess. But he was smarter than I was and kept me from revisiting the biggest mistake of my life. And I don't think we would be here if I had done that. He's awesome :) I love you and am grateful to him
ALL GIRLS SHOULD READ! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts: A good thing to read and be aware! This brought up some points that I had never heard before and some things that I even do that I need to stop! Please REPIN, IT COULD SAVE A LIFE!!