It's not selfish to love yourself, take care of yourself, and to make your happiness a priority.
Sorry, I tripped and fell into some feelings... It's okay, I brushed that shit off real quick.
♥ I have never liked the saying "God only gives us what He knows we can handle" In a bad situation it makes the situation that much worse to think that you are being subjected to your misfortunes on purpose. This saying is much more inspiring. To know that He is always there no matter what your trials and will help you through them...all you have to do is ask.
None of that backwards trial logic here.