Here are my "go to" paint colors for kitchen cabinets. If you don't LOVE your kitchen the way it is, then yes, you should totally paint your cabinets. Even if they are oak. White kitchens are not trendy, they are timeless. There is no timestamp on a white kitchen. There are many "good grays" and "good whites", but every kitchen is different, because there are other elements to consider like countertops, backsplash, flooring, and appliances. Not to mention natural light!
The cabinets were professionally painted with Swiss Coffee. He rolls the cabinet boxes and takes the cabinet doors to his studio to be sprayed. Swiss Coffee is a creamy, very light greige color. It's off-white without looking dirty. We added a backsplash, all new lighting, hardware, granite, faucet, and moldings galore. The added molding to the peninsula was a massive improvement. Molding is an easy fix for those of you looking to dress up your kitchen.