Urban Decay Naked Palette look. Soft, simple, and very pretty. Would look great on any woman, for any occasion, and with any outfit, from blue jeans, to a black dress. A little Visine Original in your eyes beforehand will also help your eyes be bright and help you look more awake and more beautiful. :-)
Bridesmaids status. Maybe some with more pink or gold tint to pop against the white and compliment red.