I feel this is the exact truth. You have two choices from a loss; learn from it, or wrap it away and become bitter. I have always chosen the first option.
The comfortable silence between older people is really just silent conversation honed over a lifetime together. I miss it terribly. It is not silence at all.
Small, smart choices + consistency + time = radical difference! I'm changing my life for the better right now, who's going to join me?
Pharrell Williams - Happy (Despicable Me 2 - Lyric Video)
This stands true for me since i've shut down from people, i feel more confident without their negative vibes bringing me down. I was tired of being excluded, and looked down on all while being friendly, polite, & supportive. I'm much more confident now. Self respect has taken away the insecurities. I'm also getting a very sharp intuition as i get older that i listen very closely to.
And true information is getting very hard to find. Be REALLY informed. Be intelligent think, analyse, try to UNDERSTAND everything. Question, think and don't 'eat' fast food 'information' that is almost always engineered prosessed artfully crafted lies these people have specialists in lies. Lies targeted to every audience they are very smart, and you have to outsmart them. The Bible tells us a useful shortcut: you will know them by their fruit.
I need this tattooed on the inside of my forehead.
Works SOOOO much better for me.
8 Ways to Declutter Your Mind: 1. Accept what is 2. Be kind to yourself 3. Release your guilt and fears 4. Let go of control 5. Visualize what's important to you 6. Focus on your life-force energy 7. Allow yourself to be vulnerable 8. Find what doesn't serve or interest you and let it go
Today I'll be a woman who doesn't blurt out just exactly what my emotions want me to. I'm not dictated by them. Even when it feels better to say what's on my mind and give the 'what for,' I have the ability to control my temper, my words, and my actions. I'm controlled by the power of the Lord. And through Him, I'll respond with peace, grace and quietness.