Your loss. You were so fucking scared because everyone loved me. It made you feel like you didn't have any control. You were scared that I wouldn't think you were GOOD ENOUGH, or cute enough, or smart enough. That I wouldn't pick you. You knew everyone hated you & you didn't want to be seen as failure in my eyes. Truth is.. in the end, that exactly what you became........
Not at all true -- there is the third, less conventional option of simply being with that person, in love, for the rest of your lives without the bindings of marriage. Then you know you'll stay together not because it's difficult to get out of the relationship but because you truly want to be together. It is a mark of a much stronger commitment to NOT marry.
crazy thing about dating... True story
Just Do It! Then do it again, but better!
So true! and sometimes even when you are smiling, friends get too upset that you're happy in this situation - and they don't stop to look at your eyes. Sometimes seeing all that pain all the time is just more than the ones who really love you can bear... And they are upset you've placed yourself, or been forced into that situation again!