Comparing your marriage to a love story written in Hollywood will ROB you of the joy that you should find in your relationship. Recognize that your love story was written by God himself.
I have seen one to many young Mothers put other thing and people before there own Child .It makes me sick. These poor children are so confused .the parents are there then they arent for a long time then just wanna come and go in the childs life .Why? Not because you care or love them if that was the case you would have been there from the start.