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Modern Love Guide

Modern Love Guide

I've taken the experiential path to find love & want to help you cultivate love with less bumps and bruises to your heart and faster success. How I can help?

LOVE BANDS: ALTERNATIVE ENGAGEMENT RINGS (Rogers Digital Media 2009, All Rights Reserved.)

You know what blind dates are, but do you know if you’re blindly dating? I’m here to help you take off your blinders and use your car buying skills (yes I said car buying skills) to help you find love.

The world is full of magical things...we just need to open to be able to fully perceive them.

Dave and I have been together 4 years. We had no idea what was in store for us. Today we talk about what we've have gotten out of the deal so far. ;) Love Bombs 26

I went on a whole lot of dates before I found my husband. Many of those first dates never made it to second dates because I saw some red flags and politely stepped away. In my latest WinkWisely article: Some Red Flags You’re Ignoring. I talk about red flags, how to spot them and how to handle them. Listen to your gut!

If you're on LinkedIn you may or may not know some people are looking for love and using Linkedin like a dating site. And now others are building apps to make that even easier. Where are the boundaries between social and business? I have very strong feelings about all of that and share my thoughts. Do you think LinkedIn should be used for finding love?

You probably don't want to admit this, but you play mind games. Some are subtle and harmless while some can cause some real damage. Dave and I share the mind games we play and figure out some strategies on how to change that. Are there ways to be more direct and not rely on games to communicate?

Last week we started the conversation about allowing yourself to dream and how that plays out in your relationship. We continue the conversation this week and see if Cija is really having a mid-life crisis or mid-life chrysalis. How do you identify who you are when people ask you and it that truly who you are?

Dave has always been the visionary in our relationship and I the nose to the grindstone doer with very little vision, just give me the parts and I will make it happen. Today we start a conversation about this idea of dreaming, opening up your mind to other possibilities and also how you support each other in that quest. Because I'll tell you it is really hard to dream when you are with someone who is not supportive...been there done that. Do you dare to dream?

So are you the kind of person that is kind of free flowing in your deadlines or do you need a concrete end date? Well Dave and I are at opposite ends of the spectrum on this and well we just bought a house..so hilarity will ensue when house projects arise What kind of project endurance do you have?

I'm tired of being afraid. It stops me from doing all kinds of amazing things things I know I am capable of. We have more control then we think. What are you afraid of?

I'm tired of being afraid. It stops me from doing all kinds of amazing things things I know I am capable of. We have more control then we think. What are you afraid of?

Last week we started the conversation about allowing yourself to dream and how that plays out in your relationship. How do you identify who you are when people ask you?

Lots of people claim they are a great catch and are perplexed by why they are single. But how many people clearly state their awesome on their dating profile (without being a total bore)? I give some hints and ideas of how to “toot your own horn” and get the right people checking out your profile.