Walt Whitman - There is nothing wrong with being curious... but being judgmental is unacceptable. We can only answer for our own actions and words. However, what I believe for me personally should NOT be interpreted as passing judgment on anyone in any way... lest ye be guilty of being judgmental.
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They say that ...when you find yourself, try to become a better person all your shitty friend ...well, they will be gone. God will not allow you to work on you, let you get better and heal and keep bad friends that influence you the wrong way. that is not going to happen.