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♥ never pull yourself down. Even when your sad, listen to music, eat dessert, even go shopping! Do something that will make you look at yourself in the mirror and be able to say, "I have no clue why i was sad! But i will look fabulous to bring myself up to my world of happiness!"
I do NOT owe anyone any explanation for my boundaries. I'm caring, understanding, loving, and I'll listen and help when I can. The need to prove anything beyond that because it's put in constant illogical doubt is toxic. Enough.