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Guy Insight: Often girls think a guy doesn't realize this, and will write him off because she believes him to be concentrated on a romantic endeavor when actually he's just trying to vibe. -- "Not every girl wants to be in a relationship: Some just want good company, a guy to vibe with, converse with & laugh with. Not in a rush. Start off simple, and let the rest find itself."
I like that this really has the feel of a 'wanted' poster.