Kids with special needs - such a tough subject and sensitive to talk about - especially if you have "typical" kids. This post give some great insight into how both types of parents think/feel - both those with typical kids and those with special needs. Much of the discussion happens in the comments, so be sure to read those too.
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What you may not know about special needs parents.
Resources for parents of kids with learning disabilities # parent resources # special needs