:) Maid of Honor: Buy a scrapbook with removable pages, and mail a page to all of the bachelorette's girlfriends. Ask everyone to decorate one side with photos of herself and/or the bride, funny quotes and memories, a letter, mementos of their friendship, etc. On the other side, have them write out their favorite recipe.. Or any variations... Wrap it up and give it to her during the party.
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Bachelorette Party Etiquette from LaurenConrad.com