Yep! I don't care about the gift to them, except that it is a commandment.... but the forgetting about them, THAT is what I value. I have practically done it, I am so happy, I nearly have that douchebag's name out of my mind. It was there for 40 years, but almost gone now. Hallelujah! What a gift to myself. I am so much better off, even if I lose so many memories. I don't care.
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You may be pretty, and you may be talented, but nobody will remember that if you're mean... *need to remember this