If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, then change your attitude about it. If changing your attitude about it would be a betrayal to yourself, then ask yourself this: "If things were to stay the same as they are right now, could I live with it? If the answer is no, then you should no longer allow it to continue."
"that can't eat, can't sleep, reach for the stars, over the fence, world series kind of love?"