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The Psychopathic Narcissist and His World

Narcissists, Psychopaths, and relationships with abusers in various settings: family, workplace, church, and community.

Amnesiac Narcissist's Selective Memory: It's All About Narcissistic Supply! (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

System Re-victimizes, Pathologizes Victim, Sides with Offender, Abuser. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Personal boundaries are rules of conduct, red lines in the sand any infringement and breach of which you deem unacceptable behavior. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Victim Through Abuser's Eyes: Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin - YouTube

Contrary to misinformation spread by "experts" online, covert narcissists are not cunning and manipulative. Classic narcissists are. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Somatic narcissists derive their narcissistic supply not so much from the sex act as from the process of securing it. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Narcissist's Victim: NO CONTACT Rules. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Words which Describe the Narcissist (ADD YOUR OWN!)

The narcissist is a shell. Uncertain of his own reality, he engages in "conspicuous existence". (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Narcissists love to be hated and hate to be loved. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

In women I induce confusion. They are attracted and then repelled by some essence that they cannot explain, nor name. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Michael Cross, author of the "Freedom from Conscience" book series interviews Sam Vaknin, author of "Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited."

The Psychopathic Narcissist as Santa Claus. Sam Vaknin, New Year's Eve 2014.

Introducing my YouTube Channel: "Narcissists, Psychopaths, Abuse" (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

If I had to distil my quotidian existence in two pithy sentences, I would say: I love to be hated and I hate to be loved. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Narcissist, as usual, tend to rationalize and aggrandize their schizoid conduct. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

In the long run, she succumbs to her self-defeating urges and seeks to ruin the fount of her frustration despite the fact that he also serves as her prime source of narcissistic supply. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Narcissism? Munchausen and Munchausen by Proxy Syndromes (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

The psychological background of swinging (The Lifestyle, wife-swapping, wife-sharing, group sex) is not clear and has never been studied in depth. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

Psychopath? 5 Red Flags and 3 Rs Test: Remorse, Remediation, and Restoration. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

How can you tell a TRUE friend from a FAKE, NARCISSISTIC one? (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 3 DVDs with 16 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relationships: www.narcissistic-...)

The narcissist uses his cold empathy (www.youtube.com/...) to elicit narcissistic supply. He robotically imitates warm, emotional empathy in order to get his interlocutor to participate in interactions which, as far as the narcissist is concerned, constitute narcissistic supply.

Sexual fantasy life of narcissists reflects their inner landscape: their fear of intimacy, misogyny, control freakiness, auto-eroticism, latent sadism and masochism, problems of gender identity, and various sexual paraphilias. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link: www.narcissistic-...)