Dustin Hoffman in tears as he discusses how his life would have been different if he'd been born a woman. Love this.
You will begin to heal when.. Forgive yourself for believing lies and trusting someone who hurt you that much.. Forgive yourself for being so blind and such a horrible judge of character. Forgive yourself for being trapped in pain so long, in the land of the dead on the inside, trapped by grief unable to move forward and taking so long to heal. And find pride in yourself for Finally finding your way out of the darkness into the land of the living. Be proud you survived and Empowered yourself.
Deep breaths and remember it feels great the moment you tell that person off but you usually feel like crap about yourself after. Be kind, patient and tolerant and do not let people who are a vexation to the soul make you as sick and angry inside as they are. Do not allow resentment to poison you, love them from a far if you must but love them nonetheless.