3x03: Opie and Jax are talking about Tara and Lyla. Jax says Opie would kill to get Lyla out of her day job but all he wants is Tara to go back to hers. Opie says the leave of absence might be the best thing because of everything she's been through. Jax says he's struggling with it. He says his dad's manuscript said there are only two ways an old lady makes it: either you tell them everything or you tell them nothing. Anything else: shit falls apart. Opie says he didn't tell Donna anything.