If you want to attract something into your life, raise your vibration to match it. Think about what it would feel like to have it. You don't have to believe you have it, but you do need to tune into the energy of having it. Believe you deserve it. That's how you attract it! I write about this in my new book, How to Be Well.
Emotions have a vibratory frequency to them. Furthermore, out DNA only experiences two emotions, Love or fear; other emotions either branch off of the previous two. Fear has a low frequency vibration. Love has a high frequency vibration.