There's a special type of strength that can only be found by being alone: when are left with simply ourselves, we begin to discover who we truly are. We can into this world alone and we shall leave this world alone!
Get to know yourself better - strengths & weaknesses, warts & all. Self knowledge is acceptance, personal growth & ultimate happiness. Article attached gives you links to sites to discover more about yourself.
"The thought of this gives me comfort. You and I both know what happened. Stop playing poor me and seeking attention [with lies and unfair false accusations and forgetting the consequences of not taking responsibility for your behaviour and actions].