TRUE!!!!!!!!!! Some beasts you later regret meeting and shamefully try to erase it from memory. It usually takes someone amazing to come along and awaken the ones that are good for your soul, before you see the ugly ones or are able to move on from them.
Stop planting flowers in peoples yards who aren’t going to…
Pinning this to remind myself never to be this person. The flowers I plant on others gardens aren't for them, they are for me. And you never know when or what will grow. How sad to just write people off like this.
"Tell me darling, who stole the light from your soul? I see the way you hold yourself so tightly. (Maybe you are afraid you will float away.) You are a building standing so tall but a single word would demolish you." -t.t.
At first it is not "just move on". It is getting by minute to minute, hour by hour, then day by day. It is devastation & destruction, & cruelty. It is not something you get over, you live one day at a time. Only actions & transparency make it better over time. It may take years or decades. So if you can't climb this mountain, find the hill with the troll.