Pain is a part of life. It’s what makes us human. It shapes us the same as love and laughter. You don’t have to forget what happened in the past, but you cannot let it destroy you. One step at a time, one foot in front of the other, you can get through your current troubles, one way or another. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/11/19/7-habits-that-are-making-you-miserable/
There is such a thing as being too nice. It sounds like an oxymoron, but some fuckers don't respect or deserve anything you may have to help them. They best way to describe these types of people is using the phrase, "selfish bastards."