I do not get the men or women who do this. That think they can control men or women. That they are forbid to be friends with someone or not go places because they might cheat. If you do things like this you are with the WRONG person!
You have already dated quite a long time, the period of chocolates and flowers, smoothly coming to the end. You are sure in your choice, in your feelings and each time waiting for a meeting with your beloved. Really, came the time for decisive actions.