"Suffering has been stronger than all other teaching, and has taught me to understand what your heart used to be. I have been bent and broken, but - I hope - into a better shape." ~ Charles Dickens #mayitbeofbenefit
Unfortunately, we learn, a little late down the path, that most things that we worry about and give our utmost intentions to don't really give us comfort . Stopping and putting things in perspective of fond memories and happiness doesn't happen often enough.