Learned the hard way, DON'T DO THIS FOR A NARCISSIST! Never ever, ever, stand by someone that treats you badly and says one thing but does another, i.e. says he loves you, NEVER shows it, is abuse. Run. Believe me, it is better to be alone than in a relationship with a person that uses your good heart and your good soul.
I love you more than anything baby girl. I don't give a shit what anybody else thinks of us or how we started out or how we began. It is you and me that is all that matters. Let the haters sour their lives and sour their souls sour their spirits and destroy their own hearts with the hate they have for us because the love I have for you casts a shadow over any of that