This is another thing I wish I woulda thought of when my kids were younger. Make Cleaning Fun For Kids With A Simple DIY Chore Chart. I'm gonna have to try this! Maybe it'll get Bobby more encouraged to do stuff around the house!
Huffington Post: 11 Questions That Will Make Your Child Happier. These 11 questions focus your children on how to make themselves happy. Eventually, your children will internalize these questions and ask them in their own heads.