May your character preach more loudly than you words. Who you are and your values have the ability to influence others and the world. Actions speak louder than words so therefore who you are speaks louder than what you have to say.
I have to remember this. Although, i NEVER claim perfection and have not always acted from love. I am not defined by how others treat me, not even those closest who I thought loved me unconditionally. I am defined by what God says.
Seek to be worth knowing, rather than be well known. Anyone can be well known--some because of their bad, or negative, destructive behavior. But I'd rather seek to be someone worth knowing, that builds others up instead of tearing them down.