The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love.They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if the other leave, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.
Affirmation - Forgiving Others. It's not easy, but absolutely necessary. Even if it is a repeat offender, one with a selfish mind and heart :( who strives to always make things hard for me instead of just moving on with what he's replaced us with.