Hard maar waar!
If you want to go running with me, you'd better be prepared to walk a lot. Because I walk a lot.
Life is short buy the Shoes. I live by this motto. And not just for shoes.
You've got to work HARD for the things you want/hope for. If you don't work hard, do you really want or deserve it in the first place?
You cannot control someone else's behavior. You can only control your own reaction.
Take a break from whatever is wearing you out!