you don't get to choose, you just fall in love, and sometimes the reason it's so confusing.it's because it's love, and if love didn't have challenge what would be the point?
You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.
marriage does not guarantee you will be together forever, it's only paper. relationship need love, respect, trust, understanding and loyalty.