You can take something awful or make it good. It's all about how you look at it. So you can either make your life horrible, or make it the best you can, by changing your perception of the thought you have within!
S and I are truly blessed that we both do all these things for each other.. not because we expect it or feel obligated to do so, but because we love each other. His needs come first before mine... And for him, my needs comes first before his. When you truly love the person you do things naturally because you just love making that person happy.