I've used this tree metaphor before. You wouldn't walk up to a pine tree and say, "Pine tree, you have too many pine needles. You need to grow apples." Accept people for who they are, just as we accept the rest of our natural world. ~KK
You don't have to follow what other people do. If you don't think it is right or you don't like it, make your own way. Become a trend setter, start your own thing. Inspire others to do the same, thus is how you become who you really are.