People say "I don't care how I dress because it's not fair for someone to judge you by what you wear." But here's the thing. The way you dress DOES reflect part of you, and who you are, and what you like. And more than that, the way you dress affects you.
LOVE THIS! "I often wonder if more girls were willing to be ladies would more guys feel challenged to be gentlemen?" It may also be true that if more guys were willing to be gentlemen, then girls would feel challenged to be ladies.