"Sometimes you just have to turn around, give little smile, throw the match, and burn that bridge." I've adopted this a long time ago and it changes you for the better. Those bridges were going to crumble any way, might as well give them a hand.
Family stands with you; they hold you up; they push you higher. They don't talk bad about you to anyone, down to you nor do they not talk to you. And they don't try to destroy with insults or try to devalue you with their words.