A different perspective on scars from masectomy (my mother's experience): My mum had a masectomy more than 10 years ago and now she regrets. Because her scars hardened and causes her pain now and then. She had at first mistaken the pains as heart disease.
Remember, anyone can love you when the sun is shining. In the storms is where you learn who truly cares for you. Fair weather friends only want to come around when they need your sun to shine on their dark and gloomy days. Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.