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It killed me when you defended someone who didn't love you as selflessly as I did. Letting you go was the hardest thing I've ever done, but I hope you won't make the same mistakes with the next girl. I just wish you had made them with the girl before me.

It killed me when you defended someone who didn't love you as selflessly as I did. Letting you go was the hardest thing I've ever done, but I hope you won't make the same mistakes with the next girl. I just wish you had made them with the girl before me.

Your hardest times often lead to the greatest moments of your life. Keep the faith. It will all be worth it in the end.

Your hardest times often lead to the greatest moments of your life. Keep the faith. It will all be worth it in the end.

I've found more often than not this is someone that was a trusted friend, not a significant other

I've found more often than not this is someone that was a trusted friend, not a significant other

Only you can change your life. There is nothing wrong with doing something better. Only the envious will have something to say.

Only you can change your life. There is nothing wrong with doing something better. Only the envious will have something to say.

Stand up for yourself. Have boundaries. Don't be close to anyone who uses you, abuses you or doesn't treat you right.

Stand up for yourself. Have boundaries. Don't be close to anyone who uses you, abuses you or doesn't treat you right.

You may be all these things to me and mean a great deal, but I've learned through my experiences that I should love and respect myself enough to know that with or without you I will live, survive,  and eventually thrive.

You may be all these things to me and mean a great deal, but I've learned through my experiences that I should love and respect myself enough to know that with or without you I will live, survive, and eventually thrive.

There are some things you don’t want to happen, but have to accept, things you don’t want to know, but have to learn, and people you can’t live without but have to let go. Some circumstances and people come into your life just to strengthen you, so you can move on without them. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/07/30/12-things-to-know-before-letting-go/

There are some things you don’t want to happen, but have to accept, things you don’t want to know, but have to learn, and people you can’t live without but have to let go. Some circumstances and people come into your life just to strengthen you, so you can move on without them. - via: http://www.marcandangel.com/2012/07/30/12-things-to-know-before-letting-go/

That actually makes me feel a little bit better. I know that sounds strange, but I fear loving another for just that reason - trust. If the same thing were to happen ever again, I truly don't think I'd be able to come out the other side like I did, kicking, scratching, and screaming (metaphorically speaking) this time. So... let's just keep it simple, shall we?

That actually makes me feel a little bit better. I know that sounds strange, but I fear loving another for just that reason - trust. If the same thing were to happen ever again, I truly don't think I'd be able to come out the other side like I did, kicking, scratching, and screaming (metaphorically speaking) this time. So... let's just keep it simple, shall we?

I do believe this is something every girl needs to know: trust me sweetie they're not all worth your tears

Not Everyone You Lose Is A Loss

I do believe this is something every girl needs to know: trust me sweetie they're not all worth your tears

A person who never learned to TRUST confuses intensity with intimacy, obsession with care, and control with security. ~Patrick Carnes, psychiatrist

A person who never learned to TRUST

A person who never learned to TRUST confuses intensity with intimacy, obsession with care, and control with security. ~Patrick Carnes, psychiatrist

We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It doesn’t mean they are bad people; it just means that their part in your story is over.

We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It doesn’t mean they are bad people; it just means that their part in your story is over.

Forgive yourself for the blindness that put you in the path of those who betrayed you. Sometimes a good heart doesn't see the bad.

Forgive yourself for the blindness that put you in the path of those who betrayed you. Sometimes a good heart doesn't see the bad.