choiceWell said. I just read "The Anatomy of Peace" by the Arbringer Institute. It talks about being with a heart at war OR a heart at peace. Our choices whether right or wrong in other minds must resonate with what we feel and desire to be right in ours.
I do this all the time. Mostly with geek related jokes. For example: I saw a lady today that kind of freaked me out cause she was staring at me and not blinking... I giggled to myself cause she totally would have survived the weeping angels in Doctor Who.