Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens. - I call it "Living in the moment and enjoying life.
I love my kids dearly. but they will leave home one day. What will the relationship I'm left with be like. When I realized this, my husband became my first. It also makes "cutting the apron strings" a whole lot easier.