I've used this tree metaphor before. You wouldn't walk up to a pine tree and say, "Pine tree, you have too many pine needles. You need to grow apples." Accept people for who they are, just as we accept the rest of our natural world.
THIS IS THE BEST LIST I HAVE EVER SEEN. no joke you guys these things may seem small but i can testify that they really do make a difference in how you feel about yourself!! SELF CARE COMES FIRST. LOVE YOURSELF OK.