Grief. This is SO true. My dad has been gone for almost 13 years and I am finally at a point I can understand this. I will never say I am grateful for his death, but it definitely gave me something that very few others have.
Live life to the fullest. If you are not sure of the above maybe you should ask yourself ...If you died today would you be happy with the life you lived? If the answer is no maybe it time to change something. It's taken me this long to fully understand this due to a death of a very young and beautiful girl. I never knew her personally, but I wish I did. RIP Naomi Tami.