Easier said than done. Im guilty of wanting the people around me to be more content then myself only to open myself up to being walked on and treated less important to a point that they become almost mentally abusive to me as the relationship progresses.
Former pinner said: "Someone told me to let go! Just let go! And don't be angry, upset, disappointed at people who aren't meant to be in your life..those who don't understand your love, and most of all are not worth your love anymore."