Would the person you want to become be talking to his or herself the way you are? Would they be making excuses? Would they talk themselves out of doing what it takes to move them closer to who they want to be? More than grand gestures, it's the baby steps you take in every moment that add up to big changes. Be aware of your thinking, your self talk, and the things you choose to focus on - that's where you're creating your life...in those little moments.