Out of God's will is to step into a very dangerous place-Eternity is FOREVER! God gave us His Commandments, His Church, His Teachings to live by--there's too much documented evidence to try to dispute the FACTS!
The Lord is our refuge and our strength. When one calls on the Lord, He always answers. We just don't like His answer. There is always a reason God says 'no'. God always has something better for our future.