Unfortunately we learn a little late down the path that most things that we worry about and give our utmost intentions to dont really give us comfort . Stopping and putting things in perspective of fond memories and happiness doesnt happen often enough.
This can be difficult to do, at least for me, but I always check and remind myself of this when I start to put pressure on me or feel like things are not happening for me. Because the journey, the process us what this is alk about. It is Life.