Nobody knows what you've dealt with except you. People don't talk about every single thing that happens to them. It's not fair to ASSUME people haven't gone through hell just because they didn't tell you.
But tell me! I can't live my life in this constant confusion. Don't want to talk? Cool! Tell me! I'm stronger than you'd think and more stubborn then you'd ever imagine. I have felt things that were beyond intense. Believe me I'm not frail. Just tell me.