You don't get to choose, you just fall in love and you get this person who is all wrong and all right at the same time. And you know you love them so much except sometimes they drive you completely insane - no one can explain it. And the reason it is so confusing is because it's love and if love didn't have challenges , what would be the point?
Unconditional love is an act of the will that has absolutely nothing to do with what it will receive in return. Go to faithsmessenger. to read the article "Unconditional Love: Jesus loves us In spite of our Drool"