I need to read this everyday until it "sticks"---Obedience: Why Do You Have To Tell Them Five Times? (Love & Logic style techniques) Excellent suggestions and explanations for teaching self-control instead of obedience and why nagging doesn't work
Forced apologies dont teach true remorse and reconciliation. Parents can set kids up for sincere reconciliation.Restitution consequences encourage personal responsibility and usually end with one child feeling cared for and the other feeling caring.
This has some great tips on natural consequences for kids undesirable actions. Love the idea of natural consequences. Hate her idea of sending a kid to another room when acting like a brat, but she has other good stuff to say.